tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2441769948981888005.post6730475887233579015..comments2023-05-30T05:48:26.542-07:00Comments on Lovesick Soul: Talked into... MARRIAGEYedid Nefeshhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05768603382212408288noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2441769948981888005.post-58663859496530903162011-10-30T14:05:48.496-07:002011-10-30T14:05:48.496-07:00It is a very sad phenomenon, but you hear about it...It is a very sad phenomenon, but you hear about it all the times... <br />So to counterbalance these talk shows where people say sad things about their spouse, or ex, i listen to the love radio, where people have only nice thing to say :)Yedid Nefeshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05768603382212408288noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2441769948981888005.post-24485407322489081062011-10-28T11:16:59.091-07:002011-10-28T11:16:59.091-07:00They do need to grow up, and they clearly weren...They do need to grow up, and they clearly weren't mature enough to get married in the first place, or have any sort of real relationship. They almost sound like little boys who wanted to play house like they did when they were in kindergarten and are upset at the fact that being married carries great responsibilities of various types. <br /><br />I, as a guy, am horribly disgusted by other guys out there who promote this attitude that being married has been bad for them/hurt them/was a mistake, and being single is better. If anything, his wife should feel this way for getting stuck with an immature, egotistical, selfish jerk like him.<br /><br />I was once reading a newspaper's advice column where a male reader wrote in saying that his wife just had a baby, and he's very excited about his new child and everything, but now he just doesn't feel as attracted to his wife anymore - her body's changes have transformed her into an entirely different person than the woman he dated and got married to. So despite his "love" for his wife and child, he wants out and would like to find someone "more attractive."<br /><br />The columnist didn't respond herself, but instead forwarded the message to several male and female friends and printed their responses - and they went postal on the guy, just as he deserves. <br /><br />It really makes me wonder where men in our world (mostly secular world, but it happens in the Jewish world too) are heading...Shades of Greyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02733139852424935591noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2441769948981888005.post-46377942857951640252011-10-27T07:11:48.860-07:002011-10-27T07:11:48.860-07:00It's more common than one would think. Guys sl...It's more common than one would think. Guys slink onto talk shows complaining how they miss the single life. <br /><br />A guy even wrote into my local Jewish newspaper with this ridiculous story how he got hoodwinked into marrying! He didn't even have a good reason how his wife was terrible; he just whined about how he wanted to get a house but by having a wife and child his finances don't permit. Uh, what do you need a house for if you don't have a family? Dufus. <br /><br />They need to grow up.Princess Leahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17217157534383672867noreply@blogger.com